From Surviving to Thriving: The Steps to a Meaningful Life
- Parinaz Shams
- Aug 21, 2023
- 5 min read
How I Transformed My Life Through Tantra Meditation, Somatic Healing Yoga, and Spiritual Mentorship, and How You Can Too. Parinaz Shams| Spiritual Life Coach
Five years ago, my life felt like a whirlwind of chaos. I was trapped in a cycle of burnout, frustration, and emotional exhaustion.
My career had become a relentless treadmill of overwork, leaving me drained and disheartened.
I was emotionally spent from the turbulence in my relationship. I was angry, on-edge, and confused as to why my life was not going the way I wanted even though I had worked so hard for every part of it.
My physical body was sending constant distress signals – chronic inflammation, stress, acne, and gut issues, making it that much harder to get through each day.
Every aspect of myself – my body, mind, heart, and energy – was overwhelmed and unhappy.
Outwardly, I seemed like a functional individual going about my days. I worked out, appeared healthy, and showed up for my responsibilities. I claimed to be "fine" when people asked.
But deep down, I knew the truth.
I wasn't fine. I was far from it.
It was time for a drastic change, a life-altering shift from survival to genuine thriving.
I had no idea how or where to start, but something told me it started with me and the type of relationship I had with myself.
I summoned all the courage within me and made a resolute decision – I wasn't going to settle for a life that was merely "fine." I wasn't going to allow myself to remain stuck in a cycle of misery.
It was time to leave the old life behind and embark on a journey of self-discovery and transformation.
It was clear to me that doing the usual self-care stuff like gym workouts and watching my diet and trying to have some fun on the weekends was not the solution, because the problem ran much deeper than self-care.
The path ahead was uncharted, but it held the promise of a more authentic and fulfilling existence. So I went ahead.
I began my transformation by sitting down with myself and engaging in a process of introspection.
I turned to the tools that I've come to share with the world today – tools that helped me get crystal clear about who I was and what I truly wanted.
It was uncomfortable at first to look at myself, my belief systems, the conditioning that had accumulated over my essence that was preventing me from being my REAL self in my relationship and in my career.
Although challenging, each step was a step toward liberation.
I could feel myself getting clearer and clearer on who I was and why I wasn't happy.
Every day the anxiety on my chest lessened, my anger and need to control everything subsided.
I was calmer, more at ease, and slowly I started to recognize a happier version of me appearing. It was then that I realized this "happier version" was the real me, she had always been there, she had just been covered up for a long time.
This was really only possible because I tapped into the power of healing tools, specifically Somatic Healing Yoga and Tantra Meditation. They were instrumental in helping me rediscover my inner balance.
The next most important part of my path was having the guidance of exceptional mentors paved the way for my personal growth and evolution. This is why I always recommend to people that they find a mentor, too. It can be really scary and confusing to do deep inner healing work on your own.
And now, five years later, the transformation is nothing short of remarkable. Still, somedays I have to smile at how far I've come and how much things have changed as a result of the inner work.
The path I've chosen, one uniquely mine, has led me to a level of fulfillment and inner calm I never thought possible. I've come to genuinely appreciate and love who I am.
My body is genuinely happy and healthy, my mind is clear and focused, and my heart is open to the beauty and possibilities life has to offer. And it's all because I connected with my True Self.
If you're after true happiness where you really like the person you are, then that's about something else entirely…
It's about fostering a profound relationship with your True Self, what I call your essence. This is where the real magic happens.
When you nurture this connection, you embark on a journey that goes beyond life's scripted roles and responsibilities.
Embracing your essence isn't just about knowing what you're good at or what you like – it's about diving deep into your core values, passions, and the purpose that truly lights you up.
It's about stripping away the layers of conditioned identities to uncover the authentic you.
When you begin this inward journey, you step into a realm of boundless freedom.
Join the "Transform Your Life Masterclass"
I've designed a Masterclass, "Transform Your Life," that shows you exactly what you need to be guided along this path to personal freedom.
This masterclass helps you know exactly what you need to cultivate a strong relationship with your true self.
It shows you the power of connecting with your body, mind, and spirit through somatic healing yoga and tantra meditation.
Through this masterclass, you'll learn to listen to your inner whispers, prioritize your passions, and make choices that align with your unique journey.
I will guide you step by step, helping you uncover the obstacles that stand between you and your happiness.
We will explore the same tools that brought me from the depths of unhappiness to the heights of fulfillment.
This journey isn't complicated or insurmountable – it's about embracing the real and effective strategies that can lead to a life of purpose and joy.
Don't let another day pass by where you settle for "fine." You deserve more – a life that's vibrant, authentic, and deeply satisfying.
By embracing your essence, you free yourself from the confines of external expectations and embark on the adventure of a lifetime – the journey to your authentic self.
If you're tired of a life that's merely "fine" and you're ready to break free from the barriers holding you back, this masterclass is for you.
The power to transform your life lies within you. Let's unlock it together.
To register for the "Transform Your Life Masterclass," click here.
Love,
Parinaz
About the Author:
Parinaz Shams is a Persian Spiritual Life Coach and somatic expert. Based in Denver, Colorado Parinaz integrates the ancient healing sciences of Hatha Yoga, Ayurveda, and Tantra Meditation with her Complete Self ™ Life Coaching approach to awaken health, healing, and happiness in the lives of busy people who experience high stress and chronic pain. Parinaz's mission is to help you, no matter who you are or how "spiritual" you consider yourself today, Embrace Your Essence, so you can experience lasting physical health, emotional wholeness, and self-trust in every way.
Instagram: @_parinazshams_
Email: shamsguidance@gmail.com
Podcast: Embrace Your Essence on Spotify
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